Finding Bauer, my angel with paws

Sarah Goldberg is a JJ’s List volunteer with Cerebral Palsy. This post, she shares with us what it’s been like trying to get a service dog, and how she, after 2 long years, finally has Bauer in her life.

Hi, my name is Sarah Goldberg and I am 22 and I am a person who is living with Cerebral Palsy. Cerebral Palsy is a condition which affects many different parts of the body such as the brain and the extremities. For me it mostly affects my extremities, some way more than others and that is what makes my life a little more challenging than someone who doesn’t live with a disability.

So that’s why about two years ago I started to think about getting a service dog so I could become more independent than I already am. I thought the idea was great. Besides, it’s a dog; Who wouldn’t want a dog? And this is not just any dog. Service dogs are very smart and are trained to do many different helpful tasks such as help you get up off the floor, do your laundry, and if you’re old enough, they can even help you get a beer. Pretty cool huh? But for me it would be mostly to help me with my balance issues.

My search for a service dog started about 2 years ago when I saw someone at a fair with one. It seemed like a great idea, since I’m not a fan of having to ask for help walking down stairs. So we started asking people with dogs where they got them and doing research online. The search wasn’t as easy as anticipated. Some organizations said that because we already have a family dog, we couldn’t have a service dog. Others cited that I did not live in the right area. One agency even said I was 2nd on their list, but never got back to me despite my calls to them.

A service dog. Photo by Christine Jump

Then last summer I went to the Disability Pride Parade in Chicago. I marched in the parade and at the end there was a gathering where every organization that participated in the parade had a booth to share what their organization is all about. That’s where I spotted My Angel With Paws. Hooray! My Angel With Paws brought dogs to show and I was drawn to them. There were golden retrievers, labradoodles and some black labs. These are the kinds of dogs that are trained to become service dogs because they are big and sturdy, and very smart animals but most of all they are very friendly and make good companions.

I was very excited to have met the people and the dogs and they seemed very willing to help me get a dog, but I knew that it would be a while before I would actually have the dog. It takes about two years to train a dog. As a puppy they go to live with a family for about a year and a half and then they move on to advanced training (which is in Florida for this organization), so as you can see it is a long process and kind of a waiting game for the clients. For me I have a hard time waiting so its been hard because I feel that I could be using the dog now but I have to wait.

During the waiting game I’ve been patient. My Mom and I had the chance to go to Ikea and meet the dogs and see what they could do. It was very interesting because who would think to go to Ikea to play with dogs? We went there because they wanted to show us how the dogs could open and close cabinets and push elevator buttons and sit quietly under a table while you are eating. Bree, the dog I was with even picked up my keys for me and walked with me. And then there was Darby—he is a golden retriever and only 9 weeks old and so cute with his little service dog vest on. From what I saw, these dogs are pretty amazing.

—– ADDED UPDATE —–

Sarah, her mom, and Bauer at the Disability Pride Parade 2011

Since Sarah wrote her post, she’s finally been able to welcome Bauer, her very own service dog, into her family. While Bauer still has to spend the next few months getting trained in Florida, Sarah’s been able to spend 4 days with him in Chicago.

“It’s been great. I just love having him and it’s been good working with him as my partner in crime. He walks with me and gives me balance.” She’s had a chance to take Bauer out and about with her, including to places like the Willis Tower. When asked how businesses have reacted to Bauer’s presence, she said “everyone’s been nice to him, so I’ve had no problems. When we go out to eat, Bauer just waits patiently under the table.”

Now that Sarah’s back in college, she’ll have to wait till January to see Bauer again. She’ll be heading down to Florida to fulfill a mandatory 2-week training period with Bauer. “I have to train with him, learn commands and take him places. Since someone else is training him now, he’ll have to get used to being with me. It’s been a life-changing experience because he helps me become more independent. I miss him and want to come back sooner.”

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3 Responses to “Finding Bauer, my angel with paws”
  1. lauren says:

    hi sara,
    i know i am a stranger. but how did you get a serice dog. i am a disability alut like you. i am trying to get one for years and they say they do not have dogs to help with my balence. but when i saw you with your dog it answer my prays. plese help. plese write back.
    jjlist freiend lauren

  2. yongshuling says:

    Was just sent this great video of Sarah’s reaction when Bauer was flown back from Florida as a surprise during the fundraiser her family had organized for My Angel With Paws. Her reaction was absolutely priceless! 😉

  3. katelynmartinwon@gmail.com says:

    NICE BLOG sarah i have a disablity a lot like you and i have applied at the same organization and i am patiently waiting for my service dog . I went up to deland for my birthday and got to meet some of the dogs . I also got to meet EDGE who is a golden retriver like your service dog who may potentially be my service dog . Good luck with everything

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